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2001-04-27 - 10:49 p.m. The "not too cool guy" date from a few weeks ago... What do I do?
I'm dating myself. I've been out on three dates. And I like the guy, but he's too nice. No, that's not it.
I spent all evening tonight listening to stories. I love to listen to people talk, but there's a point where, on the third time in meeting someone, that they should understand that they're monopolizing the conversation. And stop, to ask a question to the other person.
I want to be able to listen to someone talk about their lives until the wee hours of the morning, but not on the third date.
And I'm SO not attracted to him. That's what makes kissing him that much worse. He's an attractive guy, but it's just not there.
How do you break up with someone who you're not attracted to, but you have kissed, and who thinks you're attracted to?
I don't want to hurt him, but I am not myself with him, and it's so obvious to me, and not to him--and that's the key. Someone who cares about me, as a person, knows - or at least senses - that I'm not comfortable.
And the guy that I want to kiss and talk to, isn't calling.
What the hell is wrong with this?!
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